What do you mean success is?

Just think about the people those are struggling for earning money, those are earning money but struggling in relations, those are good in relations but struggling for money and one more those are struggling with themself due to health or some other problem. All are trying to get the respective thing, they don’t have and if they could get that, they might be successful.

Now talk about the measure of success. It might be money, power or fame. I think, we can relate all of these because to be successful by the means of power, money or fame it need to have another one.

So, money, power and fame are just mediums but not always success.

Then what mean success is? I think success is the result of efforts in particular thing to benefit the individual or the group or the society, i.e. a successful individual or successful industrialist or socialist.

After going through all above points we can conclude happiness is the only measure of success.

So, success should come with the happiness, without happiness there is no success.

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I am feeling lonely today !!!

"Yes, I often feel lonely, but why?" This type of sentences are always repeated in our personal conversation with our friends, colleagues, and relatives, repeatedly.

But no one thinks about loneliness. i.e. where it comes from and how to overcome it.

I think loneliness is the feeling, which comes from the situation where we are incomplete to the surrounding.

For example you are away from your family, staying with new peoples & in second example your best friend is not with you in a tour. In both the cases you are feeling lonely, but it is not because someones absence but it is because someones shortcoming in the surrounding which is requirement of surrounding.

But you know, from where it starts? It generally start when you are exposing yourself to the surrounding where you are incomplete or you are not satisfying the criteria of that surrounding.

Still knowing these facts, how you can suppress loneliness? 

Yes you can! you can suppress loneliness by not involving yourself in particular surrounding or by preparing yourself for that surrounding or by choosing surrounding which accommodate your nature.

Definitely you will be away from loneliness.

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How to enjoy the things we don’t like to do.

Many times we need to do very irrelevant things which we are not really enjoying. But because of some reason, forcefully or intentionally we are doing those things.

Then, why don’t we start enjoying, instead of cursing and forcing our self to do those things?

Ask yourself,

What you like to do most?

Then,

Why don't you like that particular thing?

And lastly, why you are involved in that particular thing?

Now you will come to know that you are doing the things because of your some purpose. 

Lets go in details of your purpose.

Just before that, ask yourself, how you will handle your purpose. 

Can you avoid it completely? If Yes, then simply avoid it but if No, then you have to stick with your purpose but still you can enjoy the things by introducing other things which you like most. Handle the things in such a way that enjoyable things must be bigger compared to dislike thing.

Can you divert it? If Yes, then simply divert it but if No, then you have to stick with your purpose but still you can enjoy the things by the way as mentioned above.

If you can reduce the effect, then simply reduce it but if No, then also you can enjoy the things by the way as mentioned above.

But if you want to keep yourself away from this type of situation, identify the possible things you will do and prepare yourself for identified things then you will definitely enjoy the things as those were predicted and for what you have prepared yourself.

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Hobby, Personality and making money

       There are number of ways to make money and for that it is not really important to have some specialization degree or any capital. For supporting your idea there are various ways you get guidance and can arrange capital.

Then how one can make good money of oneself?

One thing is that your hobby and personality can play vital role in making money. Lets integrate and differentiate both of them from each other. Hobbies, the things we like to do most, enjoy and the things we are living. Another is personality, it is a way you are presenting yourself, your style and may be adjective to us from someone else.

So what is the easiest way to make money?

It is very simple, make your hobby as your profession and choose your profession to accomodate your personality. That make you resist less in that environment. Now get expertise in your hobby as well as profession and then find number of other ways which are related to your profession and hobby where you can explore yourself.

You may face lot of problems during this journey but you must have patience as there are number of solutions to overcome your personal, cultural, regional, financial problems, etc. But that will be in the next post......

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