Resolution

Most of the people like to start new activities on some special occasions for ease in remembering.

One of the most special occasions is a new year. Many of us have already started recapping whole year that what they have gained and loosed, good and bad memories of year, things they supposed to do and what they did and lot of other things like this.

So, in this post we will talk about resolution, people's view and what we think.

Generally, resolution comes in a picture only when we find some things yet to be accomplished or those are we required to accomplish.

Resolutions are generally made to build personality, for growth, to achieve some goal or just as a habit. So, resolution is a promise to oneself to accomplish particular task.

In process of resolution, everyone is taking recap of whole passing year then arriving at result, if succeeded, makes new resolution which is in priority. If not succeeded, either it carry forwarded or it is given up.

Now, it is a time to share, what we think about resolution. We think, people make any resolution only to strengthen their personality, to achieve some goal or a commitment towards society or an environment or a relation, etc. to enjoy benefits from it. Then why don't we make any resolution at a moment when we feels responsible or when we finding any incapability in ourselves.

So, everyone with this attitude will get a special occasion at every moment he/she feel responsible to make resolution. And it is depending upon a time it takes and number of simultaneous task.

As New Year is one of the best time to make new resolution, why don't we have this attitude of making resolution at a moment one feels responsible. So, think positive, find your weaknesses, feel responsible, make a resolution and see the difference.

Wish you all the best.

Happy New Year.

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My perfect life partner

Life partner is very important person in everyone’s life. This is a person who should be caring, understanding, dedicating, intelligent, and most responsible and where we feel ourselves secure. We need a person who can become our strength, our inspiration and our mentor. Expectations about life partner always changes with person to person.

So, this blog is for everyone who is married or not yet married.
  
Generally, people wants so many things to be reflect in their life partners, especially those they like and those they have. Some people are getting a perfect match but number of people those don’t get a right one are compromising many things with their life partner even though they had spent lot of time in understanding their life partner.

So it is everyone's responsibility to understand what they are expecting, usefulness of their each expectation and most important limitations of their life partner.

The most common complaints in this relationships are not giving time, dishonest, not frank, demands, thinking and lot many.

We think, people, those are complaining about time are most fanny who wants all thing should be done at the same time without compromising a single one. Generally, to get all other things which are required for the happiness, needs sufficient time and it is possible only when if someone utilizing allotted time seriously. So it is up to that person how to manage time and life partner.

If we think about dishonesty, several reasons may come out. One of the reasons of dishonesty might be shortcoming of expectations of partner or one is habitual of something which leads to make it dishonest. In this particular case, things can be managed by moulding oneself with respect to other’s interest and by trying to change the habit of other person, if possible.

Another problem in relationship is lack of openness. Openness in relationship is very important because lot of other problems can be solved only with open talk. Other things like demands, thinking and sexual satisfaction are completely related with openness in relationship. If one's thinking matches with other, openness will come automatically and then demands can be managed.

It is everyone’s responsibility to understand importance of togetherness and to transform relation into successful relation.


Wish you all the best…


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Live life without fear

In our life span, instead of enjoying life, we spent most of the time under fear. If we start counting from our childhood up to the death, we are afraid of so many things. It may be in study, career, other activities, phobias, finding guilty, in selecting something, in doing something, mishaps, accidents, diseases, relations, environmental and social issues and lot many.

If we go in detail of all these we can conclude, we fear only when we are losing something. It might be trust, relation, money, material, reputation and lives.

So fear is the insecure feeling of losing something and a death.

Though every living thing has to die, so thinking on death is waste of time.

The second one is losing something and most of the people are afraid of this. We can secure this feeling by:

selfless behaviour,

supporting truth and

being a good human being following standard ethics.

So if you want to get out of the fear, you must know the fear, above simple steps to be followed.

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Thoughts on expectations

Expecting something from the close one is the innocent feeling. Everyone who is struggling in their life either for education, career, relation, etc are expecting so many things from their close one or others.

Now suppose, you are a person expecting something from your close one or others, should be prepared for the result which may be positive or negative depends upon what you are expecting and from whom you are expecting.

Now if the response is positive then it is simple to go ahead and achieve your goal but if the response is negative then it should be handled seriously and carefully. In this situation, understand what you are expecting, from whom you are expecting and most important what it mean to you.

In this particular situation you have to understand their problems, limitations and why they can't accomplish your expectation. So take a time and acquire all those things you are expecting from others, which they regret.

Most of the time, we are accepting people knowing their bad things because we are more liking their good things. But when we are finding some limitations in others, in case of expectation, can't we accept them? and overlook their limitations rather cursing them that they not found helpful?

So the point was, if you really want to do something and not getting what you are expecting from other, it doesn't mean you to divert from your goal and to change the perspective about the people.

Ultimately the goal is yours so shape yourself in such a way that you can achieve your goal by expecting less from others.


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