Thoughts on expectations

Expecting something from the close one is the innocent feeling. Everyone who is struggling in their life either for education, career, relation, etc are expecting so many things from their close one or others.

Now suppose, you are a person expecting something from your close one or others, should be prepared for the result which may be positive or negative depends upon what you are expecting and from whom you are expecting.

Now if the response is positive then it is simple to go ahead and achieve your goal but if the response is negative then it should be handled seriously and carefully. In this situation, understand what you are expecting, from whom you are expecting and most important what it mean to you.

In this particular situation you have to understand their problems, limitations and why they can't accomplish your expectation. So take a time and acquire all those things you are expecting from others, which they regret.

Most of the time, we are accepting people knowing their bad things because we are more liking their good things. But when we are finding some limitations in others, in case of expectation, can't we accept them? and overlook their limitations rather cursing them that they not found helpful?

So the point was, if you really want to do something and not getting what you are expecting from other, it doesn't mean you to divert from your goal and to change the perspective about the people.

Ultimately the goal is yours so shape yourself in such a way that you can achieve your goal by expecting less from others.


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